Conflicting Personalities

“Ever since I was around 10 I’ve had the fetish of being handcuffed to a girl who has a very conflicting personality with mine. It’s pretty fucking weird, almost certain it stemmed from cartoons. Only realized it when I was in elementary school, held in detention with a girl who I had an argument with.”

-OnTimeTommy, Reddit

Daddy Issues

“For sure daddy issues... But I like an older man with authority. I want him to teach me and guide me. When I'm called a good girl it drives me insane in a good way.

I just want to add women are often kink shamed particularly when it stems from the father figure... But there are so many absent fathers. I think embracing what's fucked up about your kink is both deeply satisfying and healing. If you have any sort of pleasure that fills a void scooped out long ago, address it. It could change your outlook.”

-FiddleSticks3333, Reddit